I felt bad for breaking my annual streak last year of not upholding this sacred ritual of yearly reflections (I was at Taiwan for year-end countdown at Taipei 101) so here I am now, not to redeem myself but to make sure that I don't live with the same guilt the next year 😂
I remember dreading the thought of entering 2023 last year. In December 2022, I signed the offer letter from a company in KL, when I really wanted to go to Singapore with Teddy. It would be my first time switching companies, and my first time taking on the role of a Product Owner, in an industry that I wasn't familiar with at all. I wasn't too ready to face all these challenges amidst LDR, hence why I thought 2023 might be one of the most challenging year yet, even though I acknowledge that one will never be "ready".
Now looking back, I actually very much enjoyed most of the things I've gone through the past year. It definitely wasn't a year filled with sadness and loneliness as I initially imagined, quite the contrary in fact.
Reflecting 2023
- Growth: 8/10
- Career: 8/10
- Body: 8/10
- Mind: 7/10
- Romance: 6/10
- Friends: 5/10
- Family: 3/10
- Finance: 2/10
- Joy: 8.5/10
Mind
Personal development
Career
Physical Health
Relationships
Romance
Friends
Family
Financial stress?
- I haven't been investing (even though imo now should be a good time to)
- The food options where my office at is ridiculously expensive (I tried cooking after work/over the weekends in hopes to save some money)
- My rental is more than 25% of my salary hello (The very next day after signing the rental contract at my current place, my brother decided he'd take up another job offer and wouldn't be staying with me. The landlord and house agent said I would have to forfeit my deposit of over RM4000 if I decide not to stay there. I'm paying an absurd amount of money on a 1.3k sqft unit that's too big for one person to stay. Fun times)
- I haven't been saving enough (exactly how was I able to travel up so frequently again hahahah)
- When I spend, I really burn a hole in my wallet (I only ever bought from taobao once this year, and I don't really buy random things from Shopee/Lazada anymore, BUT I did spend almost RM12k on my lasik surgery, and another RM10k on MLTA for house insurance.. welp)
What I've enjoyed in 2023
- Being alone
- My new role being a Product Owner
- Learning from my colleagues from my new company
- The many travels
- Kicking-off the year with a bang at Taipei
- Visits to Singapore - First concert with Teddy
- Longest trip every in my life - 12 days in Japan
- Doing Lasik!!
- Starting some new things I've always wanted to try
- Digital journal and Youtube
- Exercising consistently
What I look forward to in 2024
- Travelling to LA, potentially Spain and Australia
- Going to a few concerts (IVE, Ed Sheeran, Taylor Swift concerts confirmed 💸)
- Growing my socials and see where it brings me
- Working on a new side project